Helen and the Iliad: Connecting the Dots, or, When All Pieces in the Puzzle Fit Together

Recently I was lucky enough to get to know the works of the Italian writer Mirella Santamato. I am an avid and attentive reader and these books have captured my attention in a very significant way.

Mirella’s powerful and inspiring voice has entered my heart, it has touched my soul. It got the strings of my inner being to resonate, bringing in new energies, new life. I consider the work of this writer a great gift that the universe brings us when we get close to it.

In fact it is an oeuvre that denotes authenticity, dedication, hope, wisdom, insight, and poetry. I started with Santamato’s autobiographical fiction, Io, Sirena fuor d’acqua, which roughly translates as Me, A Siren Out of Water, and then moved on to other titles, including Quando Troia era solo una città, which roughly translates as When Troy Was Just a City, and which I am reviewing here.

It has been a bit like entering a creative space that in many ways resonates with mine, and which complements and at the same time deepens it.

The book on the Trojan War I am so excited to review, in particular, is a rare gem of knowledge, erudition, reference, intuition, feeling, and wisdom. It is a reading of the Iliad that brings back some remote origins of this poem into the consciousness of a modern reader.

Is the Iliad truly just an epic poem that celebrates war and appreciates the Greeks’ victory over the people of the ancient Asia Minor city called Troy?

Or is it something else too?

Perhaps it is also a poem that mourns the demise of a civilization based on partnership, collaboration, and communion, such as the ones celebrated in Riane Eisler‘s studies of ancient and pre-history.

Santamato’s reading refers to the transition between the partnership cultures that scholars like Riane Eisler and Marija Gimbutas attribute to the Old Europeans, and the cultures of domination, separation, and competition in which we are still steeped.

The question of this transition is very significant to me–as it is to many other scholars invested in looking for causes of the self-destructive paths in which we humans often seem to find ourselves in–and therefore also in finding possible antidotes and cures.

Reading Mirella Santamato’s book about the Iliad and the ancient city of Troy was a great way for me to find the missing link in my perspective. It connects the dots for me, and, in so doing it opens new horizons of the imagination.

Santamato is an attentive reader of this classic of ancient Greek literature, a reader very competent in ancient Greek and in all the cultures of the Eastern Mediterranean at the time of this transition. She also demonstrates competence in the use of a wide range of secondary sources in various intersecting disciplines. Most prominently, Santamato avails herself of the conclusive studies of archeologist Marija Gimbutas, including The Ancient Goddess, and The Language of the Goddess. These studies document the existence of the gylanic cultures of the Old Europeans that populated that continent in the Neolithic.

Those cultures, Gimbutas claims, were matrifocal in that they recognized the centrality of mothers in the human kinship and generation system, and were organized around a Goddess of abundance, welcoming, pleasure, sharing, and fertility.

Santamato aptly combines textual and contextual interpretations, primary and secondary sources, to bring about credible and precious new visions.

Yes, the Iliad could very well be a poem of mourning (“compianto” as Mirella herself describes it) for the city that welcomes handsome Helen and celebrates her choice of freedom, love and beauty. The Iliad could very well be a poem that invokes the power of that ancient Goddess unearthed by the studies of Gimbutas, to preserve the memories of a partnership culture organized around joy and beauty, a culture that was still alive in the city of Troy before the Greeks destroyed it.

We know that, in Sparta, her original city, power and prestige accrued to Helen via marriage to the city’s king. Why would the Iliad be about this woman’s meaningful choice to follow her heart and move to a city where this choice would be appreciated, respected and even revered?

We also know that Hector, brother of Helen’s lover Paris, is the valiant hero who protects the city, its way of life and principles. Why would the poem end with the killing of this hero by Achilles, a killing followed by his savage dragging of Hector’s body across the battlefield?

The mourning aspect of the poem explains these choices much better that the celebratory one.

These are just two examples of why the most commonly accepted interpretation of the Iliad, as an epic poem that celebrates war and marks the Greek victory, is quite reductive indeed. More to the point, this interpretation, as it is perpetuated in schools via conventional teaching, ends up constructing a sense of destiny around domination cultures for humans.

Santamato’s fresh reading connects the dots between Gimbutas’ and Eisler’s studies of partnership cultures and the Iliad, as a cultural testimonio that these cultures at one point really existed.

This is great news!

We absolutely need this knowledge at this time in human evolution.

When all pieces of the puzzle fit together, we can, together, reinterpret the past to invent a new future. A future where all the diverse people that constitute the human family can follow our heart as Helen did.

As she completes the puzzle, Santamato is the one who brings us this gift. It is a brave gift that bodes for a beautiful future.

I highly recommend Mirella Santamato’s work to those who love reading and those who want authentic, courageous, and genuine sources of inspiration.

Thanks for your attention. Mirella Santamato’s books are of great value to me.

I highly recommend them, wishing everyone happy reading!

Scopri di più sulla prima edizione in italiano della strabiliante narrativa autobiografica, Eros: La Saggezza dell’Amore. L’edizione Kindle e quella cartacea sono ora disponibili. Perché non regalare, regalarti anche questa opportunità?

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  aka Serena Anderlini-D’Onofrio, PhD

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Book Release Soon – EROS: The Wisdom of Love – Enjoy!

WHY EROS?

WHAT IS THE POWER OF THIS NARRATIVE?

It inspires you to invent your life as the artwork of your desires.

It invites you to journey through the author’s juicy and adventurous love life, her inspiring progress in becoming who she intends to be, and her salacious critiques of American and European cultures.

It empowers you to become the designer of your own life journey and share it with other people.

It inspires you to seek within yourself what makes your life truly unique and what makes its stories a special gift to others.

It reveals to you what makes a person’s experience a source of knowledge and wisdom.

EROS resonates with essential aspects of the human experience, including desire for ever evolving knowledge, passion for deeply felt experience, the enjoyment of multiple pleasures, the gift of affection, the practice of analytic observation, and the vision of aligning health and happiness, both personal and planetary

WHAT READERS ARE SAYING

Fascinating . . . Anderlini-D’Onofrio’s writing style is exquisite .. a realistic account of the life of a bisexual woman, with its trials and tribulations as well as all its pleasures. It will help all people deal with their own sexual orientation and love styles. Both of us agreed that once we started reading this book we couldn’t put it down.

The late Fritz Klein, MD, former editor of The Journal of Bisexuality, and Regina Reinhardt, PhD, psychotherapist

Captivating, bold, titillating, saucy, yet earnestly nuanced.

Flavia Alaya, PhD, author of Under the Rose: A Confession

Powerful . . . These are journeys that cross and connect cultures, sexualities, genders, religions and geographies. These are also a woman’s journeys that traverse the terrains ad tensions of motherhood and singledom, of monogamy and polyamory, of religious dogma and spirituality, of monosexuality and bisexuality, of family and community. And always the buoyant, joyful and resilient spirit of the author journeying with her.

Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli, PhD, Senior Lecturer, School of Health and Social Development, Deakin University

A brilliant combination of cross-cultural experience, political and theoretical insights, commentary on academia, and a mother’s worries, interspersed with lots of juicy eros. I loved it!

Suzann Robins, CHT, MA, Holistic educator and activist

Few books manage to capture the reader like Serena Anderlini-D’Onofrio’s. In an age of prohibitions and empty moralism, the author proposes a journey in search of her own sexuality. The sincerity she brings to the rawness of her experience is both disarming and surprising. It’s a tortuous and sometimes painful path, experienced between two continents. With her clear and penetrating prose that soon gets a reader to participate, Serena writes an autobiography, which is also a mirror to several societies. In fact, as we read her story, we are able to understand a lot about Italy’s “morally dark” years, as they are compared with the libertarian and liberatory effervescence that agitated the Americas, which were not devoid of contradictions.

Federicomaria Muccioli, scholar and professor of history, University of Bologna, author of Storia dell’Ellenismo (A History of Hellenism).

Eros Eros confronts us with ways in which life is art. The book shows us how to take our own life and turn it into a masterpiece. Congratulations, Dr. SerenaGaia for putting us in front of this undeniable fact.

Kaimarelle, author of Rebecca – La trilogia (Rebecca: A Trilogy).

Scopri di più sulla prima edizione in italiano della strabiliante narrative autobiografica, Eros: La Saggezza dell’Amore. L’edizione Kindle, di prossima pubblicazione, è ora disponibile in pre-vendita. Perché non regalare, regalarti anche questa opportunità?

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Can we answer any questions? Please do not hesitate to contact us. We look forward to serving you in your journey of #EcosexualLove. Enjoy!

  aka Serena Anderlini-D’Onofrio, PhD

#alchimiadellamoreecosessuale  #alchemyofecosexuallove  #drserenagaia

The Valchiusella Gifts – Blessings of Covid Times

This season in Valchiusella is blessing me with many gifts. I feel grateful for this abundance.

My pod in this region is rich with joy, love, happiness, and skills.

Co-creating what we need so as to share sacred time in communion and intimacy is so beautiful.

And in a way I owe this to the Covid situation, which makes other, more commercial ways of being together, unavailable at this time.

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EcoSex Docu Trailer – Playa Azul I Love You – The Fun of Marrying a Caribbean Beach

It turns out so many people are still very curious about #Ecosexuality and #EcosexualLove. Here’s a fun way to get closer to that.

Today we offer a trailer of Playa Azul I Love You, the film that documents the first Plural Wedding of Ecosexual Love in Puerto Rico.

For the first time on YouTube, and complete with subtitles in English and/or Italian!

Welcome to this teaser. Enjoy it while we also prepare the premiere of the full movie, also for the first time of YouTube, with subtitles in English and/or Italian.

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Remedies and Diseases: To My Second Matria All Good Wishes

Sometimes, in relation to Covid, Mr T says, “the remedy can’t be worse than the disease.”

And, to my very own astonishment, I think, wooow, I sure resonate with that. Is this guy stealing my thoughts?

Then I remember that he believes he IS the remedy to a political system that is ill, which it truly is of course.

So, I realize his motto applies to himself very well too.

Mt T is the remedy to a diseased political system, and HE IS the kind of remedy that’s worse than the disease.

Can anyone resonate with that?

All good wishes America, you are my second Matria and I feel for you!

Comments, in the spirit of dialog, are welcome.

Thank you!

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Can we answer any questions? Please do not hesitate to contact us. We look forward to serving you in your journey of #EcosexualLove. Enjoy!

  aka Serena Anderlini-D’Onofrio, PhD

#alchimiadellamoreecosessuale  #alchemyofecosexuallove  #drserenagaia