The Alchemy of Ecosexual Love is an educational program in the arts of love designed for people with the desire and courage to love fearlessly and unconditionally. It combines practices and principles from Tao, Tantra, amorous inclusiveness, and sexual fluidity to empower students to reconnect with our natural gift to love.
The program refers to the practices and principles of sex-positive education, which appreciates the value of amorous and sexual expression as a basis for human happiness, health, pleasure, joy, and well-being. In sex-positive education, a wide variety of ways to express one’s amorous and sexual energy are appreciated, 
provided these expressions take place among people who are fully consenting adults. Sex-positive education encourages self-awareness, open communication, good listening, and complete respect for the wishes and non-wishes of others. Learning to respond to a proposal with a NO, and to accept that NO with respect and gratitude is a first step in sex-positive education. A NO offered without apology or excuses is often a sign that the person who speaks is taking good care of themselves. Accepting this response with respect and reverence is a way to contribute to co-creating spaces where a profusion of authentic YES’es is possible.
The practice of Ecosexual Love is based on inner guidance from the core of one’s personal ecosystem, and on respect and devotion to the ecosystems that surround us, including natural, human, and technological ones. For example, awareness of our fears puts us in touch with our inner vibrations. Addressing these insecurities is a way to raise our vibration above them and energetically dissipate external obstacles and critiques.
Respect for diversity is a way of being in awe of the diversity of nature, including human nature. When we come from a place of love, we can appreciate the value of people’s choices even when they don’t correspond to ours. For example, we can respect open relationships without practicing them, and learn to experience compersion as a way to overcome the fear of being consumed with jealousy. The programs in The Alchemy of Ecosexual Love are designed to empower participants to evolve their talents in the arts of love and to become artists of Ecosexual Love.
The programs’ elements include the following:
- The Tao, a practical philosophy from the Orient that allows one to harmonize the elements of
one’s personal ecosystem, treating one’s organs and other parts of the person like members of an expanded family, who function well when they get along. - Tantra, another practical philosophy from the Orient that combines amorous expression with aspects of the sacred, sacred, allowing aural and energetic connections among people who wish to love each other with respect and reverence for their respective vital energies.
- Amorous inclusiveness, which allows one to expand one’s ability to love in a wider horizon, beyond exclusive and monogamous norms.
- Sexual fluidity, which allows one to perceive and appreciate amorous energies regardless of the gender of the person they emanate from.
The program’s experiential practices emphasize aspects of the practice of love as an art. In particular, they are designed support participants in alchemically transforming the energy of fear into love. The opportunity of the program’s courses is to dissipate four major fears that are common obstacles to love.
These fears include:
- the fear of lovesickness
- the fear of being rejected
- the fear of being consumed with jealousy
- the fear of pleasure
Once these energetic obstacles are removed, once the energy of fear is alchemically transformed 
into the energy of love, there are no reasons why a person cannot generate all the love he or she desires. Participants in The Alchemy of Ecosexual Love are empowered to become sources of love in their own lives and communities.
- The Alchemy of Ecosexual Love is affiliated with the educational non-profit 3WayKiss, whose mission is available at this link.
- For a wider background on the evolution of this program, watch the documentary film Playa Azul I Love You: Together in Ecosexual Love (32 minutes). Film free of charge on Vimeo. View trailer here.
- The first introductory event in this program will take place at Suncave Gardens, in the vicinity of Rome, Italy, on June 29-July 1, 2018. View program at this link.
Convenor of Practices of Ecosexuality: A Symposium
Author of Multiple Books
Website Serenagaia.org
Contact: serena.anderlini@gmail.com
Teacher of Humanities Online Series – Modern History for the Humanities and Love ResearchGate Profile
Project: “Amorous Visions: Ecosexual Perspectives on Italian Cinema”
This weekend intensive is for people with the desire and courage to love fearlessly and unconditionally. When you overcome your fear of getting lovesick, of being rejected, of being consumed with jealousy, and with pleasure, what will keep your loving nature from becoming fully expressed? 
The stunning location for this intensive is Suncave Gardens, a retreat center in the verdant hills of the Roman countryside. The center is only a 30-minute drive from Rome’s main airport, Leonardo da Vinci (FCO). It serves organic meals made with local products. The amphitheater and the ancient Etruscan caves are equipped as enchanting activity rooms. The center also offers the amenity of a biolake naturist pool. 
who function well when they get along.
8-9 PM: Vegetarian dinner with vegan options
Option to stay for the afternoon with free time to practice
Visit Suncave Gardens, with its naturist biolake and the magical Etruscan cave. (Only a 30-minute drive from the Leonardo da Vinci airport.)
Dr. SerenaGaia, aka Serena Anderlini-D’Onofrio, is a teacher of #EcosexualLove. She is leader in the ecosexual movement and an expert in the ecology of love. A teacher, writer, activist, scholar, filmmaker, and cultural theorist, she co-edited the collection Ecosexuality (2015), and co-directed Playa Azul I Love You (2016). “Her prophetic books,” including Eros (2006) and Gaia (2009), “have inspired readers around the world,” Dr. Susan M. Block has said.
Monique Darling, Author of Beyond Cuddle Party and workshop facilitator extraordinaire, was born on this planet with the unique gifts and soul calling to help you remember how magnificent you truly are! Messages from your ancestors, your spirit guides, your body, nature, your soul, are all called upon and utilized so that you walk away knowing how deeply the cosmos loves you for YOU, exactly as you are, so you can begin to love and accept yourself too.
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Peter Petersen has been teaching qigong for 17 years and has been a certified massage therapist for the last 15. Peter has facilitated in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter has also been touring and teaching with Monique Darling for the last 3 years, honing his skills in facilitating dance, meditation, and Tantra Peter is also a personal wellness coach. This Qigong practice helps people ground themselves into their “now” to increase their present moment awareness of their behaviors, and find simple solutions to problematic habits such as: eating, moving, negative thinking, and sleeping. The result of this tool box of healthy information is that clients become their own health advocate and regain a sense of stability, peace, and well-being into their everyday lives
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participants for the vows. The practice called “Know and Love the Ecosystem Called Thyself” performs an attunement with one’s own personal ecosystem. The practice called “Know and Love the Partner We All Share: Earth” performs an attunement with the all encompassing ecosystem called Gaia, and the four elements that characterize it: air, water, fire, earth. The practice called “Know and Love those Who Share this Partner with You: Humankind” attunes participants to fellow humans as “metamours,” or people with whom we already always share a partner. The Wedding is a moment of union that synergizes the attunement process.
was embedded in a much wider event, the 
Participants at the Gathering, and community members present at Lolia Place at the time, all convened together in a circle to be a part of this moment. Lolia people included members of the leadership team, investors, interns and staff. Gathering people included facilitators, participants, and organizers. The ceremony started with the Invocation, read by Walker. I pledged to read the Vows in a people’s mike form. The circle was invited to repeat the lines and amplify their resonance across the grounds. Everyone was able to bespeak their love for the shared amorous partner to a measure of their own comfort.
The revised Invocation and Vows are available. Find the 
A PWEL is an experience of attunement to the practice of EcosexualLove for eco-sustainable communities. The blue print of the original Wedding, and its reincarnation at Lolia Place Ecovillage, are intended to serve as a model for many others. Please get in touch with us when you feel inspired to bring the experience to your communities.
The Call for Proposals comes from our team-member, “Your Portland Poet” Karen Hery. She’s organizing the 1st Annual Gathering of #EcosxualLove at Lolia Place, on Nov 1-6. We are seeking proposals. You can be part of the program. The Call expires on August 31. What is Lolia Place? An up-and-coming intentional community home of conscious sensuality and welcoming to #EcosexualLove. Here’s Karen’s invitation letter to you:
It was a pleasure be a presenter in Puerto Rico for the UPRM Symposium “Practices of Ecosexuality,” organized by Dr. SerenaGaia (aka Serena Anderlini). It’s also a pleasure to get back in touch with you with one more piece of exciting news.
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the land, while staying in camping style accommodations in small, and comfortable shared cabanas. There will be a mixture of planned structured activities and free time to enjoy the land, the surrounding places nearby on the island, and each other. We look forward to possibly sharing this magical time with you. Let us know if this feels like the right thing at this time for you.
